My girlfriend wants me to go to a gay bar

Posted March 1, edited. Okay, I need some honest feedback and serious advice, I am willing to open my eyes to a broader perspective. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1. I am currently living in a small town k canada so it is cold af and I find it a good way to simply have fun.

I like to go to the latin bar in town because they play music I enjoy and feel familiar with. I have explained my pov but he says I am disrespecting him by going out without him.

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He was in town so I said well, go and just be there somewhere if you insist, he made this big tantrum in my eyes and he left home last night. Now I am always submissing in the relationship and honestly pleasing but this is one of those non negotiables for me. I seriously do not intend to flirt, I seriously just want to go out with my friends haha.

Posted March 1, Yeah this is definitely an insecurity issue on his part, ultimately if you're with someone there has to be trust on both ends. If how you're saying it is accurate, whereby you're not going out often, not drinking etc then his fear around it seems over the top. Now to be sure, there could be reasons for this, maybe he was hurt in the past in this way or betrayed or something like that.

It would be worth having an honest conversation where you try and get to the bottom of the issue and try and truly understand his perspective, even if you dont agree with it. If you have non-negotiables as you doyou need to be authentic with them, Otherwise you are essentially faking it to stay in the relationship.

This builds up resentment at least from you to him and will not end well. If you try everything and he's still not getting it then unfortunately it may not work out long term, but if you think it's a worthwhile relationship then you should make every effort to work on it.

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